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You're refueling your car at the local gas station when you find your eye caught by a somewhat bedraggled looking 20-something young woman standing beside a beat-up van parked near the property's perimeter. The girl returns your gaze, smiles in an embarrassed way, then hesitantly makes her way over to you. Mister, can you help me? Me and my husband ran out of gas, and we've no money to buy any — we spent what little we had on formula for the baby. If you could spare a twenty, we could get her home 'cause it's getting awfully cold out. Her voice drops a bit. It's just a loan I'm asking for, mister. I'll mail it right back to you, soon as I get my paycheck this Friday. At this point you see an equally scroungy-looking young man standing by the van clutching a blanket-swaddled bundle you assume is the couple's infant. Your kind heart says to give this young woman the twenty dollars she asks for. But your common sense says otherwise. So which do you listen to? If you're like a great many folks, you fork over the twenty ... only to later discover you've been had. The stranded baby-toting couple at the gas station is but one of the many successful distressed stranger scams common to the urban experience. These swindles are a fact of modern life, and it is only a matter of time before you encounter one being run on you. Our desire to believe what we've been told coupled with our urge to perform occasional good deeds leaves us vulnerable to such cons. We take people at face value, which sets us up as pigeons to be taken advantage of. When presented with tales of woe and asked for relatively small sums that will help set things to rights, only the very rarest among us will as a matter of course turn down direct appeals for help. The vast majority will hear the unfortunates out, then make their decision to help or not based on the believability of the stories. Yet that filtering is often not enough because successful con artists know how to spin plausible-sounding yet touching yarns. They also know how to employ props (such as the swaddled baby) that further increase the probability of their prospective pigeons falling for their cons. In March 2001, a writer for the South Bend Tribune reported on his encounter with not one, but two Please help my baby! con artists in the space of a few minutes. Flim flammer #1 approached him on the street, saying she needed a few dollars to buy formula and diapers for her baby. When asked where the infant was, she claimed he was sleeping in a car parked a block away. When the reporter insisted upon being taken to the baby (who he'd just been told had been left alone in a freezing cold car), the needy mom turned tail and ran. He ran into scam mom #2 a couple of blocks further on. She was carrying what appeared to be a baby wrapped in a receiving blanket to keep out the cold. Her car was at a local gas station, she said, and she needed a few dollars to get home with her young one. The reporter lifted a corner of the blanket to peep at the child only to find a doll staring back at him. This swindler walked away defiantly with her head held high, knowing that there were other sheep to be fleeced. In 2004 a reporter for The Daily Telegraph in London ruefully detailed his run-in with the stranger in distress con. Half-asleep, he answered the door late one evening only to find there a young woman who claimed to live in nearby Apartment 2A, the one with the black door. Her mother had suffered a heart attack, announced the distraught neighbor — could he lend her cab fare to the hospital? The taxi, she said, was waiting, and the police had told her she could get a docket from the hospital which would reimburse him. The projected cab fare was £22.50, so he gave her £25. Only after she'd gone did he realize that there was no Apartment 2A in his complex. In talking over his experience with colleagues, he discovered this form of swindle was common in London, with men its principal targets because they tend to answer the door after dark more often than do women. A female co-worker of the bamboozled journalist recounted how her husband, a tough criminal lawyer, had been about to hand over taxi money to a distraught woman who claimed to have been mugged until she intervened to insist the victim come inside to telephone the police. At that point the mugging victim turned tail. Men run versions of the stranger in distress scam too. In 1998 a Pittsburgh man was arrested on four counts of theft by deception after going door to door with a tale about needing money to get to the hospital to see his son who'd just been injured in a car accident in a city some distance away. Folks who heard his sad story routinely gave him $40 or $50 apiece. The man, of course, had no son, injured or otherwise. In 1995 a con man successfully ran a version of the injured son tale on a number of Denver restaurants and bars. He would telephone these establishments and tell bartenders or managers that one of his sons had either just been killed or injured in a car accident and that he needed money so his other son could catch a taxi and go to the hospital to the hurt or dead son. To collect the money, he'd either go to the restaurant, or he would have the restaurant employee meet him at a convenience store or gas station. In 1996 in Providence, a swindler working the I need money for gas con admitted in a signed statement made after his arrest that he made between $50 and $350 a day from this endeavor. I usually call any business and tell them a relative's car broke down and needs help, and usually people give me money, thinking it's for real. He'd been taken into custody when he arrived to pick up the $20 he'd persuaded a filling station owner to give him to get his pregnant niece's car towed. The money he made on this con he used to fund his drug habit. A number of readers have written to describe their experiences with the 'distressed stranger' con. We quote from five of those e-mails on our Using Regular People page, an article about a widely-circulated account that might have been an encounter of this sort. Although there are real cases of need out there, this scam is so common that one needs keep it in mind when approached by strangers seeking assistance.
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